Years ago, I read a awesome book called You and your Problems and there was a quote that said (in summary) that the faults you see in your neighbours – shows the faults in yourself. We are so focused on other people’s weaknesses that we fail to see our own. That is human nature – to be concerned about others more than ourselves. It is time to focus on ourselves so that we can help others. A empty jar cannot help another empty jar. You must be full to help others.