Live for yourself, not for others. At the end of the day, you will suffer – not them. You should care about others but not to the point you lose care about yourself.

Keep a balance. No problem is worth destroying yourself. A human birth is rare and precious. You have a rare jewel in your hands, don’t destroy the jewel. Keep strong and be motivated to live and take care of yourself well.

#REPOST | Originally Published on the 12th November, 2017.


  1. BAM! I had intended to write my own post before coming to the Reader. Glad that I didn’t. While I don’t LIVE for one or two people, I have had a hard time coping with the ebb and flow of friendships- those who are friendly and cheerful one day, may be stone-faced and distant, the next. This has happened some, at tthe gathering I am attending this weekend, of which more in my upcoming post.. For the first time in quite a while, I am not letting this be a factor, in whether I stay or leave.

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    1. Hello RIGHTEOUSBRUIN9 😀 Thank you for your awesome comment! I am so sorry to hear that, I’ve been in similar situations. Being with friends who seem so awesome but later, that awesomeness just degrades. That is simply the impermanence of things. Circumstances change people unfortunately. Exactly, never let that be a factor to stay or leave. You make the decisions for the benefit of yourself. The mistakes I have done numerous times is putting people first and caring less about myself. We need to do what is best for ourself because there is no guarantee there are people who actually cares about ourselves. I hope you get to meet some friend who is a decent person to be with, even having one awesome friend is powerful.


  2. Right.. If one really wish to care, then do not expect.. If you expect, then be strong enough to welcome all it’s and buts of frndshp.. the one who are true will always stay, no matter what.. but the ones who doesn’t, will only need u as per their choice…

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    1. That’s true Ruchika, caring should be done without expectations because nothing is certain and we can’t expect people to be the same. Circumstances change and so does actions. You are so right, only the true ones will stay no matter what.

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